Try a different tryangle

Evolving from corrupted pyramidal systems to harmonious circle

For centuries, society has been shaped like a pyramid: a rigid structure where power is concentrated at the top and the base carries the weight of inequality. From corporate hierarchies to political systems, the triangle has been a symbol of control, competition, and scarcity. But as this system falters—manifesting in environmental crises, societal discord, and widespread disconnection—it begs the question: Is there a better way?

Imagine a world where power is not hoarded but shared, where relationships are built on connection instead of control, and where structures promote equality and collaboration. To move toward this vision, we must transform the triangle into a circle, rethinking not only our societal systems but the dynamics within our own lives.

The Triangle: A Legacy of Creation and Corruption

In sacred traditions and geometry, the triangle is a symbol of creation and growth. The number three is often associated with manifestation: the sacred union of opposites birthing something new. In the Kabbalah, it represents abundance and transformation. In Christianity, the Trinity reflects divine unity and generative power.

Yet, over time, this sacred symbol has been corrupted. Instead of fostering creation, the triangle became a tool for division. Power flows upward, leaving those at the base to sustain the privileges of a select few. We see this in the yawning gap between the wealthy elite and the struggling masses, in authoritarian political systems, and even in the family dynamics that shape us from birth. What was once a structure for stability has become a framework for imbalance and exploitation.

The Triangle in Our Lives: Seeds of Dysfunction

The roots of the triangle’s dysfunction begin at home. In the family unit, imbalanced dynamics sow the seeds of inequality, emotional disconnection, and fear. A missing or unavailable parent—whether physically absent, emotionally distant, or overburdened—can distort a child’s understanding of love and power.

Consider a child whose father is absent or domineering. They may grow up fearing authority or overcompensating for its lack, seeking approval at all costs. Meanwhile, an overwhelmed mother might project her unmet needs onto the child, forcing them to take on adult responsibilities far too soon. These dynamics create long-lasting wounds, shaping individuals who carry hyper-responsibility, guilt, or rebellion into adulthood.

This imbalance manifests in the world around us:

• Workaholic cultures that value productivity over well-being.

• Rigid hierarchies that reward dominance instead of empathy.

• Emotional disconnection that prioritizes logic over intuition and creativity.

Psychologist Stephen Karpman calls this the “Drama Triangle”—a toxic interplay of victim, rescuer, and persecutor roles.

These roles mirror the larger societal pyramid, perpetuating cycles of powerlessness and control. But these patterns, though pervasive, are not inevitable. By addressing the distortions within ourselves, we can break free from the triangle and move toward something new.

The Call to Evolve: From Triangle to Circle

The triangle’s dominance has led us to a tipping point. Ecological collapse, growing inequality, and mental health crises signal that this system no longer serves us. But this breakdown also offers an opportunity: to evolve beyond the triangle and embrace the circle.

The circle, unlike the triangle, has no apex where power concentrates. It symbolizes balance, equality, and connection—a space where every voice matters. Rooted in Indigenous traditions and feminine energy, the circle represents a way of being that is inclusive, nurturing, and deeply collaborative. In the circle, there are no victims, persecutors, or rescuers—only individuals taking shared responsibility for the whole.

This shift is not merely symbolic. It demands practical changes in how we live, work, and govern. Imagine workplaces where decisions are made collectively, communities built on mutual care, and systems designed to regenerate rather than exploit. The circle is not an abstract ideal; it is a framework for a new way of living.

Balancing the Circle: Masculine and Feminine Energies

For the circle to thrive, it must be balanced by both masculine and feminine energies. The masculine provides structure, focus, and direction, ensuring that the circle remains grounded and purposeful. The feminine brings creativity, intuition, and flow, nurturing the group’s growth and connection.

Together, these energies create a dynamic equilibrium where collaboration replaces competition and diversity becomes a strength. This balance is the foundation for a new earth: one where systems serve life rather than exploit it, and where power is not a zero-sum game but a shared resource.

Creating the New Earth

The transformation from triangle to circle begins with each of us. Healing the distortions in our personal lives—letting go of inherited roles and addressing childhood wounds—creates space for healthier relationships and communities. From there, the ripple effects extend outward, reshaping the systems we build and sustain.

To create the new earth, we must:

• Prioritize connection over competition.

• Value intuition and creativity alongside logic and strategy.

• Build systems that are regenerative, fostering equality and inclusion.

Examples of this evolution already exist. Worker-owned cooperatives, restorative justice programs, and Indigenous governance models offer glimpses of what circular systems can achieve. These initiatives remind us that the circle is not just a symbol; it is a lived reality that we can build together.

A New Way Forward

The triangle, for all its flaws, has taught us about potential, growth, and creation. But its time has passed. The future belongs to the circle—a shape of unity, balance, and infinite possibility.

The question is not whether we can evolve, but whether we will. Are we ready to break free from the hierarchies that no longer serve us? Will we choose connection over division, balance over dominance, and unity over separation?

The circle awaits. Let us step into it, together.